Effective Personal Development

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Why Is It So Easy To Get Stuck In Complaining Mode

By John, 3 months and 6 days ago

Group TalkingHave you ever noticed how easy it is to get stuck in a mode of complaining about things even though that's not you conscious intention? Why is this, even when we basically don't want to be doing it? In personal growth work, understanding your thinking can be a great help with managing what you may think you are stuck with and not have any control of.

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There Is A Reason You Notice And Admire The Traits And Characteristics Of Others

By John, 7 months and 3 days ago

I'm sure you have noticed attributes of another person to be appealing or admirable. This is normal, and can be used to your advantage if you understand why and what you can do with this awareness. Using the characteristics of others can help you to build these up in yourself. This method is called modeling.

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How To Reduce Anxiety With More Economic Problems

By John Halderman, 1 year and 10 months ago

With what is going on right now with the financial industry, housing, the stock market and the economy anxiety levels are running high. The more things appear uncertain, the more we can imagine ways they can be even worse, humans are creative creatures. And it seems we can imagine the negative quite easily. As we create more undesirable possibilities I our mind we have more to be fearful about.

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Are You In Command of Your Life's Priorities?

By John Halderman, 1 year and 10 months ago

Are you focusing your time and attention to the right things? Are you placing importance on the right thoughts, feelings and behaviors?

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You Can Feel Fear and Do It Anyway

By John Halderman, 2 years ago

Does Fear Stop YouHave you ever been overwhelmed with fear as you have faced doing something? We all have I think, each at our own level, with some becoming physically immobilized by it. If your fear feelings overpower you to the point of inaction you have given fear the upper hand. I stated it this way on purpose, your fear is not doing anything to you, rather you are allowing the fear to affect you as it does - it is all within your thought. And you have command over your thought and feelings as well.

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Can You Give Up Existing Thoughts and Perceptions?

By John Halderman, 2 years and 1 month ago

One of the things that makes it tough to change your thinking is the attachment to existing thoughts.

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