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Why Is It So Easy To Get Stuck In Complaining Mode

By John, 3 months and 13 days ago

Group TalkingHave you ever noticed how easy it is to get stuck in a mode of complaining about things even though that's not you conscious intention? Why is this, even when we basically don't want to be doing it? In personal growth work, understanding your thinking can be a great help with managing what you may think you are stuck with and not have any control of.

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Don't Wait For A Hole In the Plane

By John Halderman, 2 years and 1 month ago

I'm sure you have heard about the Qantas Airways Flight 30 jet that had to make an emergency landing at the Manila International Airport shortly after leaving Hong Kong while in route to Melbourne, Australia. It was discovered that there was a large hole in the fuselage and a this point no explanation has been given as to how it happened, although it's not likely caused by a terrorism act. All the passengers are fine and were very calm during the unknown course of actions needed to get the plane down safely in Manila.

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Are You Trying To Share Yourself With Your Past

By John, 2 years and 10 months ago

A situation has come to my attention about someone who has been having problems for a long time trying to insist that other family members go along with how he wants to sort them out. He thinks discussing the mess of the past with others will help everyone with their stress, anxiety and depression, but mostly himself. He has been having a hard time living in the present without including the past.

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