Effective Personal Development

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Why Is It So Easy To Get Stuck In Complaining Mode

By John, 1 year and 8 months ago

Group TalkingHave you ever noticed how easy it is to get stuck in a mode of complaining about things even though that's not you conscious intention? Why is this, even when we basically don't want to be doing it? In personal growth work, understanding your thinking can be a great help with managing what you may think you are stuck with and not have any control of.

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What Am I Actually Asking For And Getting

By John, 1 year and 10 months ago

Many will say that you must ask God to be given what you want, in a «will you please» way. But this is relinquishing your natural ability and right to know for yourself, to think for yourself and to choose what you want. What we receive from the Intelligent Universe is not based on the whim of a human like mind, it is a clear cause and effect system. We are here, as individualizations of God, to notice what's possible and ask for it. And, yes we can expect it to come into our life experience, but we must prepare for it first.

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Do You Believe You Can Change, Or Not

By John Halderman, 3 years ago

Personal growth and development is an ongoing process and many people seeking to make changes in their lives know that any success comes from changing their thought. But also many find this to be not as straight forward as they thought. With the movie, «The Secret» the Law of Attraction has been brought out and embraced by many, but the movie actually is just a basic introduction on the Law of Attraction not a full blown 'how to' course.

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Are You In Command of Your Life's Priorities?

By John Halderman, 3 years and 3 months ago

Are you focusing your time and attention to the right things? Are you placing importance on the right thoughts, feelings and behaviors?

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Are You Blinded By Your Life?

By John Halderman, 3 years and 3 months ago

Your life is going on and on and on. This is a good thing of course and your brain is designed to keep it this way. Part of your brains function is to simplify as much as possible and to help you feel good which it is very good at. Now you may think that you are always feeling as good as you want this is because your brain sees keeping things the same as more comforting than change. So even what may not be good for you is perpetuated. Your brain is very good at keeping everything the same, in fact it helps to enhance whatever has already been experienced. The way the brain sees this is, you must want it – you chose it, even if not consciously.

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