Effective Personal Development

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Why Is It So Easy To Get Stuck In Complaining Mode

By John, 3 months and 6 days ago

Group TalkingHave you ever noticed how easy it is to get stuck in a mode of complaining about things even though that's not you conscious intention? Why is this, even when we basically don't want to be doing it? In personal growth work, understanding your thinking can be a great help with managing what you may think you are stuck with and not have any control of.

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What Am I Actually Asking For And Getting

By John, 5 months and 15 days ago

Many will say that you must ask God to be given what you want, in a «will you please» way. But this is relinquishing your natural ability and right to know for yourself, to think for yourself and to choose what you want. What we receive from the Intelligent Universe is not based on the whim of a human like mind, it is a clear cause and effect system. We are here, as individualizations of God, to notice what's possible and ask for it. And, yes we can expect it to come into our life experience, but we must prepare for it first.

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Say Motivating Things To Yourself

By John Halderman, 1 year and 5 months ago

A while back I saved an article I read about a girls college softball team that did something amazing. They identified with positive motivating statements and started winning games. This is a perfect example of how self-talk and affirmations can affect your actions.

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Are You In Command of Your Life's Priorities?

By John Halderman, 1 year and 10 months ago

Are you focusing your time and attention to the right things? Are you placing importance on the right thoughts, feelings and behaviors?

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Experiencing More Self-Discovery

By John Halderman, 2 years ago

Self-discovery happens as the result of conscious mental and physical action. Doing the same things over and over is not conscious mental action, it's passive unconscious automatic beahavior.

We think we are thinking because our brains are working, that is not thinking. Real thinking is active curiosity, analysis, planning, dreaming and questioning. When you carry on only doing the same things each day in the same ways, you are essentially living one day many times. But when you are actively thinking, you are living a new day each day. And your personal growth and development is based on self-discovery. If you don't find out more about yourself, who you are and what you can do, there is nothing to grow into. Becoming aware of yourself right now is the first important step- you can't do anything about what you aren't aware of.



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You Can Feel Fear and Do It Anyway

By John Halderman, 2 years ago

Does Fear Stop YouHave you ever been overwhelmed with fear as you have faced doing something? We all have I think, each at our own level, with some becoming physically immobilized by it. If your fear feelings overpower you to the point of inaction you have given fear the upper hand. I stated it this way on purpose, your fear is not doing anything to you, rather you are allowing the fear to affect you as it does - it is all within your thought. And you have command over your thought and feelings as well.

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Life Distractions

By John Halderman, 2 years ago

What keeps us from doing all that we want? Many say that personal
growth and development and self awareness are our number one
priorities in life, yet most spend very little time and attention
towards this end. Some people do not realize how important it is to
continually grow, in fact they may not even realize they can. Many
people know that they can continue to grow, develop and become more
self aware, but they don't do much about it.







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The Power of Written Gratitude

By John Halderman, 2 years ago

Are you actively expressing gratitude every day? You should be. Expressing gratitude is one of the most powerful acts you can do to support your personal growth. There are always even minor things around and in your life that you can start to feel grateful about. The act of focusing on what you are thankful for places those things to a high value in your mind. And what you think about greatly affects your life.

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Can You Give Up Existing Thoughts and Perceptions?

By John Halderman, 2 years and 1 month ago

One of the things that makes it tough to change your thinking is the attachment to existing thoughts.

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Be A Magnet For What You Want

By John Halderman, 2 years and 1 month ago

Another article in the 'Daily Action For Self Improvement' series, articles focusing on the personal development and growth actions you can take daily to support a high level of happiness and satisfaction in your life.

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